Why  Individualism  Fails:  A Stoic  Perspective  on   Connection  and  Purpose
Brian Granneman Brian Granneman

Why Individualism Fails: A Stoic Perspective on Connection and Purpose

Modern culture celebrates independence, but excessive individualism often leads to isolation and meaninglessness. This blog explores why the “self-made” myth fails and how Stoic philosophy—through thinkers like Seneca, Epictetus, and Marcus Aurelius—champions interconnectedness, gratitude, and community as keys to a fulfilled life.

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Facts  and  Feelings:  The Power  of  Objectivity
Brian Granneman Brian Granneman

Facts and Feelings: The Power of Objectivity

Discover the power of objectivity through Stoic wisdom. Learn how to separate facts from emotions, pause before reacting, and respond with clarity in life’s storms. Cultivate emotional resilience, improve difficult conversations, and regain control over your mind to find lasting peace and strength amid chaos.

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Why Am I Reacting Like This? Understanding Emotional Triggers and What to Do About Them
Brian Granneman Brian Granneman

Why Am I Reacting Like This? Understanding Emotional Triggers and What to Do About Them

Discovering your life's purpose is key to true fulfillment and personal growth. Overcome barriers like fear and limiting beliefs by aligning goals with your purpose. Research shows a strong sense of purpose boosts health and longevity. Follow steps like self-reflection, goal alignment, and community building to turn your purpose into actionable goals for a fulfilling life.

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Why  Kindness  Still  Matters  in  an  Age  of  Outrage
Brian Granneman Brian Granneman

Why Kindness Still Matters in an Age of Outrage

In a world fueled by outrage, is empathy a weakness—or our last hope? This blog explores empathy’s role in justice, civilization, and personal growth. Drawing on Stoic philosophy, historical examples, and modern critiques, it argues that empathy isn’t naive—it’s necessary for a functioning, humane society.

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Resistance  Training  for   the  Soul:  Why  the  Hard Way  Might  Be  the  Right  Way
Brian Granneman Brian Granneman

Resistance Training for the Soul: Why the Hard Way Might Be the Right Way

Comfort may feel safe, but it’s secretly limiting your growth. In this deep dive into resistance, we explore how fear, discomfort, and hesitation are not signs of failure—but invitations to grow. Learn how embracing discomfort can train your nervous system, build resilience, and unlock the life you actually want.

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The Great Rewiring: How Smartphones Transformed Childhood and the Brain
Brian Granneman Brian Granneman

The Great Rewiring: How Smartphones Transformed Childhood and the Brain

Between 2010 and 2015, smartphones and social media rewired childhood, altering brain development, social skills, and mental health. Jonathan Haidt calls this the "Great Rewiring." He offers bold, research-based rules to help families and communities reclaim childhood in an age of digital overwhelm.

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Future  You:  How  to Bargain  with  the  Future to  Become  Your  Best  Self
Brian Granneman Brian Granneman

Future You: How to Bargain with the Future to Become Your Best Self

Discover how to build a relationship with your future self using Stoic wisdom and modern psychology. Learn practical tools like future self-journaling, the 10-10-10 rule, and the identity filter to make choices today that align with your best self tomorrow. Start closing the gap between who you are and who you want to be.

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Self-Pity in Recovery: A Trauma-Informed Perspective
Brian Granneman Brian Granneman

Self-Pity in Recovery: A Trauma-Informed Perspective

Explore a trauma-informed perspective on self-pity in early recovery. Rather than labeling it a character defect, this article reframes self-pity as a protective response to unresolved grief and attachment wounds, offering a more compassionate and integrated path to healing, accountability, and lasting change.

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Consistency,  Outrage,  and the  Mirror
Brian Granneman Brian Granneman

Consistency, Outrage, and the Mirror

A Stoic reflection on political discourse, selective outrage, and consistency in public values. This article explores how emotional reactivity undermines truth and examines modern issues through the lens of Stoicism to promote integrity over partisanship.

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Breaking  the  Cycle:  Recognizing  Codependency  and  Enabling  in  Relationships
Brian Granneman Brian Granneman

Breaking the Cycle: Recognizing Codependency and Enabling in Relationships

Codependency and enabling can keep addiction alive by shielding loved ones from consequences. Protecting, keeping secrets, making excuses, or avoiding the topic may feel like support—but it often fuels addiction. Breaking free means setting firm boundaries, following through, and practicing detachment with love. Learn how to recognize enabling behaviors and foster healthier relationships.

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